I have no idea what to think?

Im starting grade 10 this year-its currently summer holidays. Since grade 7 i%26#039;ve had these two friends,Lily and Mel. I became good friends with them because we were in the same classes. There has always been this triangle - Mel and I were best friends for awhile and Lil had done something really slack to us, but we all stuck together, the thing is, Lily always tries to get in the middle and pick one of us to side with and then ***** together about the other. Im not proud but Ive been sucked into it, and its been on and off forever. Lily has only been the %26#039;one left out%26#039; in grade 7. In grade 9, i was the one left out. This summer i had finally thought it was over and we could just all be 3 best friends, then i found out that Lily was taking Mel to Perth with her, which is where I took LILY with me LAST summer (I couldnt take Mel-she wasnt able to go). I%26#039;ve also found out that they sometimes talk about me, and I know Mel isnt like that but she is easily persuaded. I don%26#039;t know what to do.

I have no idea what to think?
Well only two years to go before you%26#039;re free of them but it sounds like you need new friends who won%26#039;t do those things to you. Normally i%26#039;d go with try to work things out but in this case you need new friends and maybe a group of two or four instead of three.
Reply:I would have your friends agree to one rule: to always be loyal and never talk trash about one friend to another...and if your group can%26#039;t agree to that, then I would get a new group of friends...
Reply:well assuming u live in australia cos u said %26#039;perth%26#039; u only got 2 years more of these chicks then u neva see them again.. i would just suck up to these 2 girls or make new frends. Your choice


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Reply:get new friends sounds like they don%26#039;t really like you.



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