I like an older guy!!!! help?

so there%26#039;s this guy, and he%26#039;s 16. i am 14. ive seen him around church (he goes to my church) and i know his younger brother real well (I was just in a play with his brother; we were lily and rooster in Annie). he talks to me on facebook a lot and whenever i talk to him he moves in real close and looks right into my eyes. maybe it sounds crazy, i don%26#039;t have very much to work off of because although i know everything about him he hardly knows me. i dont know what to do. i can%26#039;t get him out of my head. he is so amazing...he is polite, caring, ADORABLE, an actor (like me), he works at a hospital (like what i would like to do someday) and he is just THE perfect guy. but how do i get him to know me better? and does it make any sense for a junior to date an eighth grader? or, next year, a senior to date a freshman?

I like an older guy!!!! help?
Not old at all lol
Reply:My name is Tom . My Wife Was 8 years younger than i was when we met. that was back in in 1980..lol,, I was a school bus driver/construction worker. She 15 %26amp; I was 23 it took me 6 months just to kiss her ,but when i first saw her i knew i was going to mary her she was afraid to say anything to me as i was to her because every one would be calling me a cradle robber %26amp; you know how you get persicuted when it goes that way so i waited %26amp; hurt when other guys took her out %26amp; that caused problems later, so i went for it,,things worked out ,,o,,k,, my family backed me up because they loved me,,she fell in love with me %26amp; we just passed our 27th aniversirary With a daughter in colledge at 22years old,,. the point is ,if i wouldnt have tried %26amp; loved I would;nt have loved at all. But talk to your parents first %26amp; let them know how you feel %26amp; be sure the guy loves you before you make an *** out of your self..!! It works kinda the opposite when its the guy who is older .!! You see i went to the girls parents ant did quite a lot of talking myself ,,First!! ( A man should be the gentleman )Let him know how you feel before going any further.1st rule ,,, do not sleep with a guy just to get any attention,,!!! it will come around and bite you in the *** later one way or another/// one time or another with one person or another!!!! Trust me on this one..


Sincerely


Tom Z aka hawkeye51957
Reply:thats alright hes only 2 years older than you
Reply:well it is normal for girls to go for older guys and i think it would be ok for a senior to date a freshman age doesn%26#039;t matter. get to know him better and go for it. Good Luck
Reply:ur too young, stop being so horny
Reply:just ask him if he agrees then no harm done... but you have to be careful because you never know if he has a g/f and he prolly likes you anyways
Reply:well it can be. but older guys usually just act like that, but it could also be he likes you. and u should try to talk to him more and hangout for a while so that u guys get to kno each other. but dont over do it.
Reply:i%26#039;d like to know the same thing, I%26#039;m a freshman now and I like a senior.
Reply:Everyone hates Freshmans.. trust me. Expecally Seniors. im not saying i do! But he sounds great! Im not going to crush your dreams! so Give it a try! GOOD luck! xox
Reply:well it sounds like there%26#039;s definately potential.


i really like an older guy too,


but the gap%26#039;s bigger:[


hahaha


but anyway,


not, its not too old.


right now it makes sense.


and later in life, it wont be a big deal at all:]


good luck!!
Reply:Make sure you know what you%26#039;re getting yourself into. I%26#039;m going out with a freshman (I%26#039;m a sophomore guy). I know its not as big an age gap as yours, but whatever. And don%26#039;t expect him to like you yet. Don%26#039;t make it look like you%26#039;re stalking him. Don%26#039;t be a creep. Just don%26#039;t do anything stupid basically.
Reply:wow good luck with that
Reply:have sex with him
Reply:at my school it would be unheard of for a freshmen to go out with a senior, but hey if he really feels sumthing for you then anything is possible!
Reply:He goes to church


THAT MEANS HE%26#039;S A GOOD BOY


lol


no, go out with him, but if he asks you to have sex or something, say no


unless u want to O_o
Reply:Well, he may not be able to date you. Since, you are kind of young. But, when you get older it%26#039;s not really that big an age gap.
Reply:When you%26#039;re a freshman, he%26#039;ll go for it, and it won%26#039;t be too weird, but don%26#039;t expect it to last after that especially if he goes to college.
Reply:Sure, seniors always get first dibs on the incoming freshman... been that way always...
Reply:well a senior dated a freshman in my schoola and no one talked to her and thought she was sluty and the guy was a loser but if u like him then who cares what other people think go for it and maybe teh people in ur school r nicer
Reply:um thats kinda how i am... its fine as long as yall are in it for the right reasons... but you need to make sure he%26#039;s not taking advantage of you... other than that its sounds like a really good idea =)


good luck!!
Reply:what thats not old. im 17 and my boyfriend is 22


just go up to him and talk to him or get his little brother to talk to him for you =]
Reply:I would do it and I would not. I would if you really like him. Is he cute.=)


I would not date him because I think he is a little bet older than you.


If he walks way from you just try another time later. Or just say hey can I talk and then tell him that you like him. Asnd if he says okay them just talk to him later.


Good luck.=)
Reply:If he likes you then yes it%26#039;s possible. Do what I do and play it by ear and see what happens lol.
Reply:lol ive seen a senior date a freshman MANY times


u could ask 2 meet him, and he might just think its cute enough to want to meet u, and get to know u...


if hes nice, he%26#039;ll give u a chance


if hes shallow, he%26#039;ll probably ignore u
Reply:its okay to like him my cousin is 17 and he dated a freshmen in high school anf in college
Reply:there isnt a big age gap at all. I say go for it, if you dont u wil regret it. trust me. Get him number or something. you have NOTHING to loose....you only live once.
Reply:he might not want to date younger than him...sorrry


my brothers sixteen and i dont think in a million years he would date one of my friends in eigth grade


but who knows maybe once youre in highschool you wont seem so young to him


maybe you should consider his little brother i mean, if this guys so perfect his brother can%26#039;t be all bad right?



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