Help i know its long but please!!!?

Okay so me and my best friend lauren ive known for 6 years have been going on and off fighting for about 2 months now...All because of my other friend lily (they both hate eachother)...For nonsence reasons...But constantly lauren has told me if your friends with lily we cant ever be friends because she would lose trust in me.....So I set out and tryed to find other ways to work things out ive tryed makeing them friends that worked for 3 days and then ended on a bad note...Ive tryed not talking to lily around lauren....Ive tryed not being lilys friend ive tryed not being laurens friend.....nothing ever works!!....I could not take it finally i just seid %26quot;listen im friends with lily..im not going to lie to u i am friends with her%26quot;She seid hold on and then seid she had to go cause she was sleeping over her friends.....Then lily calls me up and invites me over so I go....I try calling lauren witch was probley a bad idea with lily around saying

Help i know its long but please!!!?
Well if she is a true friend leave her alone for a while and if she really ever cared about you and your feelings she will call or apologize. It sounds like she is a little jealous of lily. I have a friend who i fight with all the time because of jealousy. What i would do is call her ONE time and tell her you love her and you dont want to lose her over something that stupid and tell her it is up to her if she wants to be friends but you are still going to be friends with lily and if she wants yall can work out a deal where you can spend so much time with one and so much with the other.But dotn keep trying to get her to talk to you it will make matters worse just give her time to think and cool down if she really cares about you she will come around.
Reply:You could talk to both of them and ask WHY they hate eachother? then go from there. maybe there%26#039;s something you can do to help that thing. when you are with one of your friends say something nice about the other friend instead of pretending to hate the other friend and say mean things about her because that only makes your friend think more bad things about the other friend.
Reply:hmmmmm..................... well u did the right thing lauren wasnt letting u have other friends but from what u said it sounds like lily does!!!



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