Should I be worried..(Boy Situation)?

I have this good friend, Lily (not real name) who hooked up with this guy (john) last year. Now, John hates her, and they don%26#039;t talk. John has a friend, Andrew who hooked up with me and Lily%26#039;s friend, but they are not together. Anyway, now Lily and Andrew want to hook up, and are going to hang out on Friday, and Lily asked me to come, but I can%26#039;t. So, Lily is going to ask another one of our friends to come hang out (Jenna) Jenna is obviously going to hook up with John. Here%26#039;s the thing though...me and john had a thing around 3 months ago, and we were going to hook up, but we didn%26#039;t in the end because we never got the chance, but i still kind of like him. now, since i can%26#039;t go, should i be worried that jenna and john are going to hook up...jenna doesn%26#039;t know i still like him..ahh help please





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Should I be worried..(Boy Situation)?
I understand where your worry would be and I would be worried as well....If Jenna and Lily are your friends then they will respect you and the fact that you like him or liked him at all because thats what real friends do..this all goes on the notion that you let them know you still like John...do you talk to John on a regular basis because if you do I would tell him how I felt and hope that he respects that because if he doesnt know then he has no boundaries in what can and can not happen between him and Jenna..(especially if there is liquior).. If Jenna and John understand and respect your feelings then you are gonna be fine!!! Hell I would tell John not to go that way you really wont have to worry have him go where your going!!!
Reply:Well if john does hook up with jenna, is that really the person that you want to be with? You should talk to your friend lily about it and let her know what youre feeling so maybe she wont invite jenna. Or you could call john.. it is difficult bcause youre not in a relationship
Reply:I think that you should probably be worried. It sounds to me like these guys are just passing ya%26#039;ll around in a way. You could try to tell (Jenna) how you feel about this guy. If she is any kind of friend then she will understand. Good luck.





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Reply:talk to your friend
Reply:then tell jenna that u still lik him and tell john that u shuld hang out the next day or wenever u can.



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