She kisses me a lot, but says she's just being "over-friendly"...?

My friend Alexis recently started kissing me on the cheek whenever we hug, which is a few times a day. She has a boyfriend, but he graduated last year. She says she%26#039;s just %26quot;over-friendly,%26quot; but I%26#039;m not so sure. I like this other girl Lily, but I don%26#039;t get to see her that often. I don%26#039;t mind the kisses on the cheek, but today Alexis kissed me on the lips. Now I feel guilty because I still like Lily.





So then later today I texted Alexis and asked her to stop kissing me so often, but that I won%26#039;t mind the occasional friendly peck on the cheek. She was fine with that, but I can%26#039;t help but feel guilty about the kiss on the lips. Any advice?

She kisses me a lot, but says she%26#039;s just being %26quot;over-friendly%26quot;...?
tell this to you gf so your guilty feeling will reduce
Reply:its nothing, wot is done is already done, she%26#039;s already told u why she kisses u, if u dont believe her just tell her u like lilly since she also has a boyfriend.
Reply:If you don%26#039;t have a crush on Alexis, and she initiated it, then get rid of your guilty thoughts, but I really think you feel guilty b/c Alexis could be a distraction from your true goal--Lily.


Don%26#039;t feel guilty--happens to the best of us. When i was w/ my bf, I had a lil crush on another guy...but months later the crush subsided and the guilt vanished, but i was still with my bf. that%26#039;s all that matters!
Reply:You chick magnet. Some guys would die for what you have. You did the right thing telling Alexis where you stand and lets hope she can contain herself. The other thing is to maybe start seeing a little less of Alexis in order to preserve what you feel with Lily.
Reply:You have nothing to feel guilty about. Your so called friend is after you if you ask me. Do you have to be knocked over? I bet a lot of people wish they had your problem. Your friend seems to want to have her cake and eat it too. She seems a bit immature, or deliberately trying to cause trouble. Just stay away from her, and let her cool her engine.
Reply:You feel guilty because you too harbor some extra feeling for Alexis.





If you don%26#039;t have any such secret feeling, then text your positions/feeling to your gf. She should understand you if she really loves you. Your guilty feeling will subside.



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